I realize I’m judgmental in some aspects, and sometimes I wish I wasn’t, but when something is very close to your heart, and others disagree or devalue something it pisses me off. I’m probably the closest you will get to an extremist against cheating. There is no quicker way from being a hero to becoming a zero in my eyes than a revelation of one’s cheating ways. To me, it’s the sleaziest and easily most disrespectful thing you could ever do to anyone. It’s not a religious thing, as I’m the furthest you will get from a religious person, but it’s a moral thing. This whole idea that you are torn and confused between two different people is bullshit. Hey idiot, here’s an idea; don’t be in a monogamous relationship, if you don’t know the meaning of it. I have no problem whatsoever with people doing whatever they want with their bodies. If you want to have sex with 10 different people each day, it’s your choice, and I’ll respect it with no hesitations or questions asked. The problem is when when you are in a relationship and you convince yourself that you have those same rights and privileges. When you start lying to yourself “it’s just a phase”, “it doesn’t mean anything”, “i’m just having a little fun”, and when you’re affecting someone else with your lies and deceit. If you’re in a relationship where you have mutually decided sleeping with others is alright, then by all means, but being sneaky about it, while you idiot unknowing trusting significant other is under no suspicions cause they, undeservingly, trust your cheating ass, then that’s a problem.
I don’t know when I became so passionate about this cause, but if I had to take a wild guess, it was probably between one asshole boyfriend cheating on me, to another asshole boyfriend repeating his steps. The fact that some of these narcissistic people never once stop to think of the detrimental effect their actions will have on their relationship and the other person involved is sickening. If you’re in my group of friends or my family, and you cheat, I will no doubt judge you and you will feel disgusted by yourself. That may be meddling into other people’s business, but this is one area of life where I can’t keep my mouth shut and ignore what’s being done. If you want to avoid feeling like a worthless asshole in the aftermath, think another time before you screw up. I think I’m done now. Back to work.